Why is moving on such a difficult phase? Why do you have to move on?
Thats like a people word. Everyone loves to use it - especially when they mean well for you! But it is annoying...I mean again its not like you sleep over stuff and you can move on!
Moving on happens ...over time it does.. but the more you ask some one to move on the more pissing off it is! Time is a great healer and with time people do move on . Besides everyone person can figure out for themselves .
A lot of people need to revisit the situation, person before they final take one big steps. Many rather that they do the baby steps instead and eventually one day BOOM ! Reality check!
The more you think about it the worse it gets. Sometimes you just cant do it even when you know your answers.Constant denial!! We cannot embrace the situation and that makes it tougher. But everyone has this realization when its time to get over with whatever it is ! Some can faster than the others .
So relax and take a deep breath - the next time some one says move on! Smile and say you will.
Sooner than ever.
Moving on is definitely the toughest thing to do by anyone. I agree it gets annoying when ppl say move on even when they dont understand the gravity of it all. But I guess .. its human nature to console one another and we will always do it.
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